Navigating Grief at Work or School

Alex Koupal • August 3, 2023

How can I deal with grief at work?

Grief is an intricate and deeply personal emotion that can impact every aspect of our lives, including our professional or academic careers. The challenge of maintaining focus on work or school while processing these complex emotions might seem overwhelming, but there are strategies that can help.


Your experience is valid. First and foremost, it's important to acknowledge and honor your feelings. Suppressing grief can be detrimental to your mental health and cause larger problems in the long run. Create space for yourself to grieve, whether it's through journaling, speaking with a friend, or seeking help from a professional.


Communicate with others - Communication is key. If you're comfortable, consider sharing your situation with colleagues, supervisors, professors, or classmates. Many people are understanding and empathetic, and they might provide the support and flexibility you need during this time. If you need help managing your emotions or sharing them with others, book a free call with us. We're happy to help.


Set boundaries - Establishing boundaries is crucial in such an emotional time. While work or school is important, remember that taking care of your mental health is also a top priority. Set aside time for self-care activities that bring you comfort and help you recharge. Additionally, learn to say no when necessary, and don't feel guilty for taking breaks when needed.

Practice some mindfulness techniques to stay present. This list from PositivePsychology.com is a great resource. Deep breathing, meditation, or even short walks can help ground you amidst the chaos of grief and the demands of your responsibilities.


Lastly, be patient with yourself! Grief doesn't follow a linear path, and there's no set timeline for when you should "move on." Some days will be more challenging than others, and that's okay. Celebrate even the smallest achievements and milestones in your work or studies.


Dealing with grief while attending work or school can be a delicate balancing act, but remember that seeking help is a sign of strength, not weakness. By incorporating these strategies and allowing yourself the time and space to heal, you can gradually find solace while continuing to pursue your goals.


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